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There is a reason why top Silicon Valley executives are saying no to the smartphone until at least 14 for their children. Content provided below from waituntil8th.org
SMARTPHONES ARE CHANGING CHILDHOOD
Childhood is changing for children. Playing outdoors, spending time with friends, reading books and hanging out with family is happening a lot less. Smartphone ownership is nearly universal by age 14, with 91% of teens owning a phone, while 53% of children own one by age 11. Over 90% of teens (13-17) use social media, with roughly one-third using it "almost constantly". Daily screen time for teens often exceeds 4 hours, and 40% of children aged 8-12 use social media
SMARTPHONES ARE DYSREGULATING
Research shows that dependence on your smartphone may produce some of the same addictive brain responses similar to alcohol, drug and gambling addictions. They are intentionally designed to keep users engaged for long periods of time.
SMARTPHONES ARE AN ACADEMIC DISTRACTION
Elementary and middle school years establish the foundation for your child's academic success. Children learn how to manage time, projects and homework.
SMARTPHONES IMPAIR SLEEP
Studies show that the use of smartphones and other portable devices with screens affects the quantity and quality of sleep in children and teens. One study demonstrated excessive smartphone use was related to shorter total sleep time in children. Use of a smartphone was also associated with significant reductions in the quality of sleep in younger children.
Adolescents are likely restless because they anticipate receiving texts and social media messages from friends, which affects their nighttime routine. Some children even wake up in the middle of the night to check texts or social media. Sleep disturbance in childhood is known to have adverse effects on health, including poor diet, obesity, weakened immune system, stunted growth, and mental health issues.
SMARTPHONES INTERFERE WITH RELATIONSHIPS
Many parents regret allowing their child to have a smartphone because they have experienced the way the smartphone negatively impact relationships. The parent child relationship suffers. Children are often inattentive with the constant distraction the phone brings. Face to face relationships dwindle as children shift their time and energy to investing in their online “friendships.”
SMARTPHONES and SOCIAL MEDIA INCREASE THE RISK FOR ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION
These devices and social media platforms were not designed for use by children. Viewing someone else’s highlight reel on social media often leads youth to think they are missing out or are not enough compared with their peers. Research shows that the more time someone uses social media the more likely they are to be depressed. A Harvard Business Review showed the more you use Facebook the worse you feel. Another report demonstrated that adolescents’ psychological well-being decreased the more hours a week they spent on screens.
SMARTPHONES PUT YOUR CHILD AT RISK FOR CYBER BULLYING
Bullying is no longer limited to the playground or locker room. Bullies seek to harm children through social media and texts often making retreat for the victim impossible. The most common medium used for cyber bullying is the phone. About one out of every four children has experienced cyber bullying, and about one out of every six children has done it to others. Nearly half of U.S. teens have been bullied or harassed online. Only one in 10 victims will inform a parent or trusted adult of their abuse. Recent research indicates that children who receive smartphones in elementary school versus later in childhood are more likely to be involved in cyber bullying. According to the researchers, the increased risk of cyber bullying related to phone ownership could be tied to increased opportunity and vulnerability.
SMARTPHONES EXPOSE CHILDREN TO SEXUAL CONTENT
Smartphones have enabled children to view pornography anywhere. One study showed that 42% of online youth users have been exposed to online pornography. Of those, 66% reported unwanted exposure to pornography often through online ads.
TECHNOLOGY EXECUTIVES BAN SMARTPHONES FOR THEIR CHILDREN
According to a New York Times piece, many technology executives wait until their child is 14 before they allow them to have a phone. While these teenagers can make calls and text, they are not given a data plan until 16. If leaders of digital giants like Google, eBay, Apple and Yahoo are delaying the smartphone, should this not give us pause? Executives that flourish on the success of technology are protecting their children from the smartphone.